Steps to saving your relationship

March 14, 2011 by  
Filed under Saving A Relationship

It may be a cliche to say that if you want your relationship to stay strong both partners have to be able to communicate and work at it, but that doesn’t mean it isn’t accurate. If you and your partner have grown apart for whatever reason, and you feel like your relationship is on the brink of ending completely, you may want to know the best steps to saving a relationship. All relationships, and the people in them, are different so there is no one size fits all approach. Having said that, though, there are some common things that will work for most people in most circumstances.

Here are some easy steps you can take to try to pull your relationship back from the edge and make it strong and loving again:

1. No one can fix a problem until they know what the problem is. You’d never want to hear your mechanic say he has no clue what is wrong with your car but for $500 he’ll fix it! The same holds true for relationships. You have to know what is wrong before you, and your partner, can decide on the appropriate course of action to fix it.

In many cases this seemingly simple step is very difficult because it will often mean both partners will have to face some unpleasant truths about themselves and possibly even the relationship. No matter how difficult it may be, you cannot skip this step and hope to improve your relationship.

2. Once you’ve identified the troubles in your relationship you have to figure out not only what you have to do to fix them but whether or not you’re really willing to put in the time and effort to fix them.

Many people will try to convince themselves that they’re willing to do anything to fix their broken relationship, but in reality they really won’t put forth the effort. If you want your relationship to be a loving respectful one you will have to be willing, and so will your partner, to deal with the situation like an adult and head on. This is not the time to be lazy or fearful.

3. In a lot of cases, no matter what the problems seem to be on the surface, the real trouble comes because couples simply do not know how to talk to one another. More often than not each partner is more concerned with being ‘right’ and getting their point across than they are to really listen to what their partner has to say and trying to sympathize with their partner.

Only after you’ve been able to put yourself ‘on hold’ for a time and really walk in your partners shoes will you really be able to understand what they are trying to tell you and where they are coming from. Of course, this holds true for both partners. One person cannot heal a broken relationship, it always takes both partners working together to fix what is broken. Even good relationships can run into trouble, when that happens you can use these tactics of the best steps to saving a relationship to help you, and your partner, work together to get your relationship back on track.

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